Sucarie wrote:Well, a few friends like to tease me because my husband is a lot younger than me. I wasn't looking for a younger man and my husband thought I was much younger than I am so he pursued me. He's more mature than some men my age and we're a perfect match. I have to admit though, I like the arm candy. Anyway, I thought I'd go along with the jokes and match it with my perfume. I deserve a little fun after 21 years with a man who beat me, cheated on me, and said I could never get anyone else because I was fat and ugly.
My dear... in my opinion there's nothing wrong to have husband younger. C'mon...you are married! It's legal. You're loving each other. There are many men don't want married just because they resist to take a responsibility to a woman, even have kids. Me, prefer married younger man rather than to have a relationship without married with a coeval or older man. Although my husband is older than me..
The fact is you have found the right man. I'm happy for you Sucarie !
And more thing. You are not ugly at all! At your avatar, you look so charmed ! 
I think no one ugly. When we are happy, our face will shiny (bright eyes, smile..) we will look beautiful. Honestly, just for health we have to not too fat... I have sucsessed lower my weight twice. Just because I don't feel healthy when I was fat..
(migrain, unnormal blood pressure, uric acid) lol
Ok.. Arm candy..?
Jessica Simpson Fancy,
Prada Prada Candy
The only vanilla my husband like is
Dior Hypnotic Poison
And as you are in US it's easier to find
Thierry Mugler The Taste of Fragrance Alien
Hanae Mori Hanae Mori,
Gale Hayman Delicious Chocolate
Good luck! 